Saturday, November 21, 2009

It's soooo unfair!...

I dunno the yoof of today! They just hang around intimidating old grannies and younger kids. What are we going to do with them? They get worse every year and society is to blame for the lower moral standards we see all around us. What bullshit! It's the same as it ever was. Older people just forget what it's like to be young, especially their teenage years. I'm pleased that the young people from Tonbridge schools have spoken out about the way they have been warned away from the play area at Tonbridge park (see the Courier page 3 this week.) I happen to know that at least one of the girl's schools in the town has told its children not to hang around the park after school because of the complaints by some parents of younger children who are feeling unable to get access to the equipment (Presumably because they're afraid to ask a 14 year old if they'd mind awfully if their toddler can have a go on the swings!) In my experience older folks are scared not by teenagers but by the popular media image of a hoody-wearing teenager, with knife concealed in jeans pocket ready to stab anyone at the mere mention of their spotty faces. Come off it, we live in Tonbridge, not Down Town Brooklyn for goodness sake. In any case where would these moaners have the teenagers go? There are precious few youth clubs and clubs for under 18s, There's really only McDonalds, the new shake bar, the street and oh yes the park. They are right when they say there should be a skate park and other facilities robust enough for their not quite adult, lumbering bodies. Why haven't these been provided when so much money has been squandered elsewhere? My guess is as good as their's. You see for a teenager it's a long time from year 8 to the day when you're alowed to legally enter a pub. Quite frankly, the lack of decent facilities is probably the main reasons why they turn to drinking and worse. Teenagers will always want to hang out with each other and share experiences, get things off their chests, tell their friends how unfair life is. So for Pete's sake give them places in which to do it, realise that actually they're just young people who like to be with their own kind. And, Old Fogies, just stop whining about it because, if you were their age you'd be doing the same thing!,,,

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

i dont see a problem with the school kids hanging around in the park, as long as they are not causing any problems for other people, personally i would rather they hang around in the park than on the street causing trouble, and i dont know why people are making such a fuss over the hanging around there any way.

Anonymous said...

Yes perfectly acceptable for the gormless little shits to hang around swearing, scratching graffiti into the play equipment, leaving broken WKD bottles everywhere. Bless em.

delia said...

I am pretty sure if the teenagers were asked to allow a toddler to play on the equipment they would happily move. It's been a traditional place for teens to hang out in Tonbridge for years (showing my age here). I feel sorry that this has even become an issue and as Tonbridgeblog himself has pointed out this is not the Bronx and these kids are schoolchildren not gangs.

The Tomahawk Kid said...

I noticed the other day that a new basketball court has been build next to the tennis courts in the park. This is a step in the right direction for teenagers, but surely a skateboard/BMX park would have been a much better use of the money.

Paul Bailey said...

I think the Courier were just short of news that particular week. Another non-news item, almost in the same league as "Cat get stuck up a tree"!